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Don't Quit Your Memoir. Do This Instead.

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Has your New Year's resolution to write your memoir already hit a rough patch? You're not alone. While the second Friday of January is dubbed "Quitter's Day," your writing dreams don't have to become another statistic. Here's how to get back on track and stay there, based on insights from behavioral scientist Katy Milkman's research.


Missing a few writing sessions doesn't mean you've failed. When you skip a day or two, it's tempting to think, "What's the point?" and give up entirely. The key is to start small: set a minimum goal of just 5 minutes of writing. Keep a simple note of what throws you off track, and create a quick restart ritual, like reading your last good piece.


Your writing routine should bend, not break. Plan several possible writing times throughout your day rather than forcing yourself into a rigid schedule. Keep your writing tools handy in different places, and focus on weekly progress instead of daily quotas. This flexibility helps you maintain momentum even when life gets busy.


Make writing rewarding now, not just later. While memoir writing offers long-term satisfaction, you can create immediate rewards, too. Try pairing your writing sessions with something you enjoy, like your favorite coffee or a special writing spot. Share your small wins with fellow writers, and track your progress in a way that motivates you.


Instead of waiting for the perfect moment to restart, use transitions to your advantage. Break your memoir into smaller, manageable chapters. Create momentum by changing up your writing environment or using special tools that make the process feel fresh. Set meaningful personal deadlines that align with your natural rhythm.


Building a lasting writing practice is easier with support. Block out regular writing sessions at your local library, join a writing group, or find one accountability partner. Keep it simple: track your progress, celebrate small wins, and keep showing up.


Easy Tips to Get Back on Track:

• Start with 5-minute writing sessions

• Schedule flexible writing times throughout the week

• Pair writing with something you enjoy

• Break your memoir into small, manageable chapters

• Find a writing buddy for accountability

• Create a simple progress tracking system

• Plan regular mini-retreats for focused writing


If you're looking for help with the craft side of memoir writing, listen to Why Your Memoir Isn't Working, our recent conversation with book doctor Wendy Dale. Her straightforward approach to story structure pairs well with these habit-building strategies. The tools are here. It's time to get writing.

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